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Ultimate Guide To Social Skills Activities

Inside: Social skills activities and resources to help teach children valuable social skills.

Social skills activities are wonderful for teaching kids social skills. When kids develop social skills, they are better able to get along with others.

Social skills are the means by which people can make connections to others, exchange information and ideas, make their needs and desires known, and enter into and maintain relationships with other people (Taylor, Richards, and Brady, 2005).

Some kids are good at understanding and displaying effective social skills. They are usually popular, outgoing, and know how to engage with other people effortlessly.

Then there are those children who are shy, don’t talk much, and are more reserved. They may get anxious when they interact with others, especially in unfamiliar territory.

Additionally, kids on the Autism spectrum also struggle with social skills deficits.

Social skills activities give kids an opportunity to learn and practice social skills in a non-threatening way. Since these activities are fun it’s an easy buy in for kids

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Why We Need Social Skills

Social skills allow us to interact and communicate with others. These skills include verbal and non-verbal communication, such as gestures, facial expression, body language, and personal appearance. People who are socially competent are able to:

  • Show empathy for others
  • Participate in group activities
  • Be generous
  • Be helpful
  • Communicate effectively with others
  • Problem solve and negotiate

A person with strong social skills knows how to behave in social situations and understand both verbal and non-verbal cues when communicating with others.

Social Skills Needed For Success

Based on two decades of classroom research and surveys from 8,000 elementary school teachers, researchers from Vanderbuilt University identified ten social skills kids need to develop in order to be successful in school: Their research findings indicate that children benefit greatly when they know how to:

1. Listen to others
2. Follow the steps /Follow directions
3. Follow the rules
4. Ignore distractions
5. Ask for help
6. Take turns when talking to others
7. Get along with others
8. Stay calm with others
9. Be responsible for their behavior
10. Do nice things for others

Benefits of Learning Social Skills

There are numerous benefits to being socially competent. According to Lynch & Simpson, “the development of social skills lays a critical foundation for later academic achievement as well as work-related skills.

Families and schools that create an environment which reinforces social competency, allow children a greater opportunity to have positive short and long-term success. When kids learn effective social skills they:

  • Develop a positive attitude about themselves and others
  • Communicate better with others
  • Develop more self-control and are better able to manage their behaviors and emotions
  • Manage conflicts more effectively
  • Learn to be empathetic and see other people’s perspective

Related article: 100+ Social Skills Activities For Preschoolers

Signs of Social Skills Deficits In Children

Social skills deficits can become a lifelong problem for children if not addressed early on. Therefore, it is important that we identify and address deficits as soon as possible. If a child has difficulties with social skills they might:

  • Have trouble making and keeping friends
  • Inconsistently make eye contact, look down at the ground, or they may stare at others
  • Have difficulties taking turns during a conversation, talk over others, interrupt, or offer irrelevant
  • input in a conversation
  • Have inappropriate boundaries and don’t recognize people’s personal space
  • Not understand the consequences of their actions.
  • Struggle to use good manners
  • Ask inappropriate questions
  • Be rigid in their thinking and can’t see other people’s perspective
  • Have trouble understanding sarcasm and take things literally
  • Have difficulty reading body language and non-verbal cues
  • Be unable to respond to teasing, anger, failure and disappointment appropriately
  • Have difficulty asking for help
  • Lacks empathy
  • Come off as conceited, self-centered, and/or entitled
  • Have a difficult time handling conflict
  • Not be able to handle failure

How to Help Children Improve Social Skills

Developing social skills in children is all about teaching them to communicate effectively through verbal and non-verbal means. According to Ladd & Simpson, 2005, “teaching social skills can incorporate a number of techniques, including direct instruction, learning from peers, prevention of problem behaviors, and children’s books.”

Below are several resources that highlight different ways and resources you can use to help children learn how to interact with others in socially acceptable ways.

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Social Skills Activities

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Social Skills Books

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24 Fabulous Picture Books About Friendship by Teaching With Children’s Books

Books About Inclusion and Acceptance by A Day In Our Shoes

Books That Help Children Learn About Friendships by Imagination Soup

20 Top Books For Teaching Kids Manners by The Relaxed Homeschool

30 Anti-Bullying Books for Kids by Untrained Housewife

6 Dr, Suess Books for Teaching Kids Social Skills by iGame Mom

Self Regulation Picture Books by Teaching Elementary and Beyond

Children’s Books That Encourage Kindness by What We Do All Day

Social Stories For Social Skills

Social stories are a great way to help children understand what behaviors are expected of them. Below are a variety of free and paid social stories to help teach children social skills.

Social Skills Training Mini-Book Bundle

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How to Make Friends Social Story

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Teaching Kids to be Fair-Social Story and Activities

Teaching Kids To Be Caring Social Story

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When I Am Frustrated Social Story

Playground Social Scripts Mini Flip books-by And Next Comes L

Free Printable Comic Book Template For Making Social Story by Picklebums

21 Social Story Templates and Apps by Meraki Lane

Receiving Gifts Social Script by And Next Comes L








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